#31. Lessons for Midlife: Jacqueline Kerr, 48

A midlife crisis is never straightforward. There’s always the stars to light the way if we look for them.

Today we’re talking about what a midlife crisis might teach us. I had a great, and uplifting, conversation with Jacqueline Kerr. We talk about:

  • Conscious parenting

  • Why the question “what do I want?” is so difficult

  • How Jacqueline’s relationships improved after a midlife crisis

  • Why it’s important that our kids see us struggle

  • The prevalence of gender bias, especially in academia

  • Some interesting advice that Jacqueline has for anyone dealing with a loved one with Alzheimer’s - that left me a bit teary.

Jacqueline Kerr has lived all over the world and attended boarding school from the age of 10. She started her career in advertising, but wanted to use her persuasion skills for something with more purpose, so she got a PhD in physical activity promotion. She came to the US in 2004 for a postdoc, with no intention to stay, but ended up meeting her husband. She got her first professor job after writing a successful grant while on maternity leave. Jacqueline became a full professor in 2017 and got a $10 million grant, but it felt meaningless at the age of 45 and she left it all a just over a year later. Jacqueline is currently running a grant writing consultancy, hosting a midlife podcast, looking after her two kids who are 6 & 11, and taking improv classes – she’s still on the journey, but is not tethered to a life that was no longer working for her. Connect with Jacqueline: Podcast

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  • #27 - My friend Jo felt like she wasn’t where she expected to be at 40.

  • #30 - Catherine Schweikert said the traumas in her life caught up with her body in midlife.

  • #21 – Barb Dvoracek realized that she was no longer having “firsts” and talks about the U-Curve.

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